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Daughter's dream school could bankrupt family

Friday, February 5, 2016

Anderson Jewelers

Reader wants to be as well-liked as sister
Thursday, February 4, 2016

Husband's too predictable for reader
Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Reader worried niece may rebel against father and church
Tuesday, February 2, 2016

Reader unsure how to interpret racy texts
Monday, February 1, 2016

Reader in love with sister's boyfriend
DEAR HARRIETTE: Relationships never seemed to work for me. I don't really know why, but at some point or another, the guy and I would drift. After that, it'd be over. I'm tired of this pattern. I want a guy who stays and loves me unconditionally.
Saturday, January 30, 2016

CRP blood test is not useful for everyone
DEAR DOCTOR K: Both my parents had heart disease, so I'm worried I might get it. A friend said I should get a CRP test, but my doctor hasn't ordered one. Should I ask him about the test?
Saturday, January 30, 2016

Reader shocked when boyfriend requested space
Friday, January 29, 2016

People talk to reader about addict sister
Thursday, January 28, 2016

Husband mourns loss of reader's breast implants
Wednesday, January 27, 2016

New mom questions how to make new friends
DEAR HARRIETTE: I am the first of my longtime friends to be a mother, and I am having difficulty making new friends who understand motherhood while keeping up with the old ones.
Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Reader wants to reach out to uncle
DEAR HARRIETTE: My uncle, who always used to be the life of the party and a fairly slim man, has turned into a total recluse and supposedly ballooned in weight after my aunt filed for divorce.
Monday, January 25, 2016

Reader must choose between school and boyfriend
Saturday, January 23, 2016

Family fights over finances
Friday, January 22, 2016

Dad's lack of punctuality starts family fights
DEAR HARRIETTE: My father has horrible time management. This has affected birthdays, trips and family reunions. My family is always a little harsh on each other and tells it how it is, so his lateness is brought up when he forces everyone to wait around for hours. He then gets irrationally angry. We try to make a joke out of this because he never apologizes for missing flights or dinners
Thursday, January 21, 2016

Reader embarrassed by wife's insistence on english
Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Reader wonders how to handle terrible hotel
DEAR HARRIETTE: I stayed at a hotel over the New Year's holiday and thought I was lucky to even get a room, considering the time of year. I was told that there were no additional rooms when I booked mine. When I got to my room, I was horrified. While it looked clean, it smelled horrible. Really, it smelled like homeless people had been camping out there.
Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Harriette's plans to honor Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Monday, January 18, 2016

Friends use reader as unpaid counselor
DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a counselor, and I have become very successful at it. My problem is that my friends believe that I should be their counselor, too.
Saturday, January 16, 2016

There is a difference between palliative care and hospice
DEAR DOCTOR K: My mother has a chronic illness. Her doctor told her she needed palliative care. She rejects that because she says palliative care is for patients who have given up.
Saturday, January 16, 2016

Mom's health scare makes reader question sharing
DEAR HARRIETTE: My mother had a health scare over the holidays, and it really freaked my siblings and me out. We weren't sure what was going to happen to her. At the same time, we know how private she is about things, so we didn't tell many people what happened. So far she is doing OK, but she is not 100 percent yet.
Friday, January 15, 2016

Reader skating on thin ice by talking politics
Thursday, January 14, 2016

Mom worried about son's attitude
Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Veteran taking advantage of gi bill needs advice
DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a military veteran, and I was able to go back to college at the age of 40 because of the GI Bill. I just finished my undergrad program a few weeks ago, and I will start my first month of grad school in February. I have not told my parents that I am starting my graduate program.
Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Reader scared for daughter to move to Paris
DEAR HARRIETTE: My daughter is a pastry chef, and she lives and works at a luxury resort in Las Vegas. I am so proud of her because she is living her dream. She recently received an invitation from a top culinary school in Paris, offering her a scholarship. She is so excited about going to Paris, but I am nervous wreck after the recent terrorist attacks
Monday, January 11, 2016

Reader Offended By Secret Santa Gift
Saturday, January 9, 2016

Reader Wants to Skip Out on Exercise Retreat
Friday, January 8, 2016

Reader and Husband Argue Over Title
Thursday, January 7, 2016

High School Editor Makes Bad Decision
Wednesday, January 6, 2016

World Almanac
Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Reader Frustrated By False Fire Alarms
DEAR HARRIETTE: I live in a six-floor apartment building. Recently, the fire alarms have been going off more than necessary, forcing everyone to exit their homes while the fire department assesses whether there is a fire.
Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Man Wants to Thank Helpful Neighbors
Monday, January 4, 2016

Reader might need to adjust coffee order
DEAR HARRIETTE: Occasionally, when I go to my local coffee shop, my order isn't made correctly, and I can't drink it. I have a very strong dairy allergy, and upon ordering, I always make sure that I ask for a dairy-free alternative twice when ordering, but sometimes I see the barista using regular milk for my drink.
Saturday, January 2, 2016

Engaged reader toys with visiting ex
Thursday, December 31, 2015

Reader willing to give up rights to hamster
Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Friend won't leave reader alone during recruitment
DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a college student about to go through sorority recruitment. There have been a few events where I can meet the members of Greek organizations.
Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Reader needs help securing summer internship
DEAR HARRIETTE: Last summer, I ended up working at a fast food chain while my other friends were at internships or high-paying nannying jobs. The entire summer was pretty embarrassing for me, because I guess I dropped the ball regarding timing to find an internship or other job.
Monday, December 28, 2015

Reader doesn't want to hurt mom's feelings
Saturday, December 26, 2015

Wife institutes bacon ban
Thursday, December 24, 2015

Strip club party brings up many questions
Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Girlfriend's social media use bugs reader
DEAR HARRIETTE: I do not like to bring social media into relationships because I feel like it is a bit childish. However, my girlfriend has recently done something that bothers me.
Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Rainy weather causes reader to question etiquette
DEAR HARRIETTE: Coming from a rainy city, I have always wondered how umbrella etiquette functions. I always carry a small personal umbrella with me, but I know that is not the case for everyone in Seattle.
Monday, December 21, 2015

Ditched reader wants party pointers
DEAR HARRIETTE: I was ditched at a holiday party I was dragged to! My friend thought it'd be a great idea to take me to meet all of her friends ... and then she ditched me as soon as she saw all of her other friends. I tried staying in the group, I really did, but my friend did not even introduce me to anyone, and no one spoke to me.
Saturday, December 19, 2015

Reader wants out of group text
Friday, December 18, 2015

Boyfriend's food etiquette bugs reader
Thursday, December 17, 2015

Reader wonders how to tell kids about death
Wednesday, December 16, 2015

Reader upset by co-worker's firing
Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Aunt forces young daughter to work out compulsively
DEAR HARRIETTE: My younger cousin confided something shocking to me. While I was explaining my various exercise equipment, she said that she knew what ankle weights are because her mom makes her run with them on her ankles and wrists. My cousin is 9 years old and incredibly thin. I cannot believe this happens to my cousin, and she looked so upset as she was telling me. I didn't know how to respond, and we dropped the topic. This child wouldn't lie, but I haven't spoken to my aunt in years. I'm not sure how to react to this news. I do not want my aunt to make my cousin do this, but I also can't tell someone I haven't spoken to in years how to raise her daughter. What should I do? -- Poor Cousin, Dallas
Monday, December 14, 2015

Reader needs guidance in gift-giving
Saturday, December 12, 2015

Apartment washers cause arguments among residents
Friday, December 11, 2015

Guest encourages debate during birthday dinner
Thursday, December 10, 2015

Neighbor opens package that isn't his
Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Step-sister mad focus isn't on boyfriend
Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Girlfriend may need lessons in etiquette
Monday, December 7, 2015

Dear Harriette by Harriette Cole
DEAR HARRIETTE: When I was 4 years old, my mother took me to get my ears pierced. After my first ear was pierced, I began screaming and crying. I ran away and never got my second ear pierced. This was over 20 years ago. I have gotten around my single piercing by wearing one clip-on and one regular earring. No one has realized, at least to my knowledge, that I do not have both ears pierced.
Saturday, December 5, 2015

Roommate's cold sore catches reader off guard
Friday, December 4, 2015

Dinner with friend's family leads to questions
Thursday, December 3, 2015

Friends jealous of reader's workouts
Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Reader wonders about locker room etiquette
Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Reader needs help with nutritious eating
Saturday, November 28, 2015

Girlfriend's request bothers reader
Friday, November 27, 2015

Reader thinks company made a mistake in hiring
Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Bidding war strains relationship with acquaintance
Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Dance performance ruined by rude audience member
Monday, November 23, 2015

Special-needs brother gets all the attention
DEAR HARRIETTE: My brother has special needs, and he recently graduated from a special school that trained him to be able to do a simple job to make some money for himself. My family had a big celebration for him when he graduated; my mom invited around 60 people, and everyone brought him gifts and cards.
Saturday, November 21, 2015

Reader's snooping leads to startling revelation
Friday, November 20, 2015

Frustrated worker wants to pitch fresh ideas
Thursday, November 19, 2015

Banks, not friends, are the place to park your money
Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Woman wonders whether to pick up the check
Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Reader grows weary of friend's self-promotion
Monday, November 16, 2015

Daughter's dream bugs reader
Friday, November 13, 2015

Reader wonders how to interact with stepfamily
Thursday, November 12, 2015

Date's comment unsettles reader
Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Spanish-speaking reader dreading vacation
Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Reader's crowd-sourced ride bothers friends
Monday, November 9, 2015

Trinity Dodge Fixed

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